Why is Mary of Cleopas called the sister of His Mother, when Joachim had no other child? Cleopas was a brother of Joseph. When Cleopas died childless, according to the account of some, Joseph took his wife for himself and begat children for his brother. One of them is the Mary now mentioned. She is called a sister of the Theotokos, that is, a relative. For Scripture has the custom of calling kinsmen brothers. For example, Isaac says of Rebekah that she is his sister, although she was his wife. So here too the reputed daughter of Cleopas is called the sister of the Theotokos by kinship.
In the Gospels there appear four Marys: one is the Theotokos, who is called the Mother of James and Joses, for they were children of Joseph, born from his first wife, perhaps the wife of Cleopas. The Theotokos is called their Mother, as a stepmother, for She was considered the wife of Joseph. Another is the Magdalene, from whom the Lord cast out seven demons; the third is the wife of Cleopas, and the fourth is the sister of Lazarus.
Jn. 19:26. When Jesus saw His Mother and the disciple standing there, whom He loved, He says to His Mother: Woman! behold, your son.
He cares for His Mother, teaching us to show every care for our parents until our last breath. And notice, while other women are present here, He is concerned for His Mother alone. For parents who hinder the work of worshipping God should not be heeded, but those who do not hinder must be cared for in every way.
And so He, since He Himself was departing from life, and it was natural for His Mother to grieve and seek protection, entrusts the care of Her to the disciple. The Evangelist conceals his name out of modesty. For if he had wished to boast, he would have presented the reason for which he was loved, and it was probably something great and wonderful. Ah! How He honored the disciple, making him His brother. So good is it to remain with Christ in His suffering, for it leads to brotherhood with Him.
Behold how on the Cross He does everything without disturbance: He cares for His Mother, fulfills the prophecies, opens paradise to the thief, whereas before the crucifixion He experiences anguish of soul and exudes sweat. It is clear that the latter belongs to human nature, while the former belongs to the power of the Godhead.
Let Marcion and all the rest be put to shame, who babbled that the Lord appeared to the world as a phantom. For if He was not born and did not have a Mother, then why does He show such great care for Her?
Jn. 19:27. Then He says to the disciple: behold, your Mother! And from that time this disciple took Her into his own home.
So this disciple took Mary to his own home, for the Pure One was entrusted to the pure one. See how the female sex is steadfast in troubles, while the men all abandoned the Lord. Truly He came who strengthens the weak and accepts the lowly.
Jn. 19:28. After that, Jesus, knowing that all things were now accomplished, that the Scripture might be fulfilled, says: I thirst.
"Knowing," he says, "that all things were now accomplished," that is, that nothing remained unfulfilled in the plan of God's economy. So free was His death. For the end did not come upon His body before He Himself willed it, and He willed it after He had fulfilled all things. For this reason He also said: "I have power to lay down My life" (Jn. 10:18).
"He says: I thirst," and in this case again fulfills prophecy.
Jn. 19:29. Now there was set a vessel full of vinegar. And the soldiers, having filled a sponge with vinegar and put it upon hyssop, brought it to His mouth.
But they, displaying their villainous character, give Him vinegar to drink, as they did with criminals. For hyssop is applied for the reason that it is harmful. Some, however, say that the reed is called hyssop, for such is the top of the reed. They placed the sponge on the reed because the mouth of Jesus was high up. And thus the prophecy was fulfilled which says: "And in My thirst they gave Me vinegar to drink" (Ps. 69:21).
Jn. 19:30. When Jesus had tasted the vinegar, He said: It is finished!
After the drinking He said "it is finished!", that is, this prophecy too, along with all the others, has been fulfilled; nothing remains, everything is completed. He does everything without agitation and with authority. This is evident from what follows.
Jn. 19:30. And, bowing His head, He gave up the spirit.
For when all was accomplished, He, "bowing His head," since it was not nailed down, "gave up the spirit," that is, breathed His last. With us it happens the opposite way: in our case the breathing first ceases, and then the head bows. But He first bowed His head, and then gave up the spirit. From all of this it is clearly revealed that He was the Lord of death and did all things by His own authority.
The Lord committed His spirit to God and the Father, to show that the souls of the saints do not remain in the tombs, but ascend into the hands of the Father of all, while the souls of the sinful are dragged down to the place of torment, that is, to Hades.
Jn. 19:31. But since it was then Friday, the Jews, so as not to leave the bodies on the cross on the Sabbath — for that Sabbath was a great day — asked Pilate to have their legs broken and to have them taken down.
But those who swallow a camel and strain out a gnat (Matt. 23:24), having committed so great a crime, show particular concern about the day. "For," he says, "so that the bodies would not remain on the cross, they asked Pilate," that is, they asked that they be taken down.
So, they did not want to appear as avengers and murderers on the day of the feast. Otherwise: the law also commanded that the sun should not go down on a man's anger (Eph. 4:26). See how through the schemes of the Jews the prophecies are fulfilled. Here two prophecies are fulfilled at once, as the evangelist says further.
Jn. 19:32. So the soldiers came and broke the legs of the first, and of the other who had been crucified with Him.
They ask for the legs to be broken for what reason? So that, even if they remain alive, they would be incapable of action (for they were robbers).
Jn. 19:33. But when they came to Jesus, and saw that He was already dead, they did not break His legs,